Separation or divorce is not expected to anybody, but sometimes it happens and it may be unavoidable to the both of a couple. Marriage is a starting of a new relationship and everybody wants to lead a happy life in future. But due to some problem which may be financial or socially it breaks. It disturbs the couple mentally and also it has a bad impact on children. They feel insecure in future.

Some reasons of separation:

Some hide the actual financial position and income before marriage and after marriage when it comes in front then a quarrel begins.

Lack of sexual ability- It is also a cause and then they find another partner to fulfill the sexual demand. So they demand separation many times.

Misunderstanding is also another reason. To maintain a good relation with partner it is necessary between both. Sometimes misunderstanding is happened due to mother-in-law.

So try to build a good relation. Always be faithful with each other and give some times to each other. For the interest of child future many are separated but don’t take divorce. So be honest and respect each other’s position.

To a child separation or divorce of parents may be established as a great loss. They may feel that they have lost something on life and this may hamper their child brain. If there is no other option except divorce then handle the relationship with children with great care. Listen to them and always encourage them to be establishing in life. Help them In their studies and fulfill every needs so that they may never feel insecure. Always acknowledge their every feelings and when they will be able to understand everything then tell the truth to them.

Again this is not expected so try to avoid separation and live peacefully with a great understanding and sacrifice. 

In today’s era this tendency is increasing due to fast life and we cannot stay in joint family also. Children cannot learn how to respect elders and also about morality. We should know the importance of relationship and to live together with all family members not separately.

Article Posted By : Ram Prosad Acharyya  On January 06, 2013lView All Articles

I am against it as a good relationship is always good.

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