Living In Love

How heartily love brings two people very close the same way the hatred will make those two persons very far to each other. This happens in not only love but also in friendship and dating and makes the life miserable.

Two people becoming one means, two worlds becoming one and this is not the normal thing. That’s why love is said to be something special and uncommon. Love can only happen when one breaks his wall of restrictions and come out of it. When you open up your heart only then you can find someone’s heart inviting you and the vice versa. But this is said to be dangerous some times. You cannot invite all of them into your heart. You have to select yourself and be in the safer side. Because once you become close to someone you start sharing all of your secrets with that person by believing him completely. But after sharing all your secrets, a fear will start within you. You start thinking that the other person may take advantage of your secrets. So it is very important to select the correct person to enter into your life. This fear will make yourself restricted to open up your doors of heart.

Mistakes in love:

In the relationship of love, when a couple faces some problem, each other start putting blame on the other thinking that they are correct. If anything goes against what they think, they themselves decide that it the mistake of the other. This method will never be helpful to maintain a better relationship. If we always think that all the mistakes are of the opposite person, then definitely the other person will also think the same about you. And these thinking will reach to a very dangerous part of life. Instead of this one have to think of his own mistakes and disabilities, only then reality will be replaced with hatred. Then the same feeling starts with the opposite persona also. This feeling makes two lovers very close to each other. Both of them should keep in mind that whatever mistakes have been done will be by himself only, especially in the matter of love we should think that we ourselves are the one to do the mistake. This is very difficult to do because it will hurt your ego. But if one want to maintain a good relationship this has to be done.

Thinking of past:

Never think about the past, nor the future, just think about the present. When you think about the past, you will enter into a very disappointed mood. When you think about the future, you may get scared. All these thinking will spoil your present. Feel that there is no past and no future, only present is yours. Live your life at present with full of love. This is what called living in love.