Some children never mingle with others or other children very easily. When they come across any new person, then they feel shy and hide behind their parents. This is known as over shyness. This can be overcome by parents only.  Parents should observe their children character and behavior from children’s childhood.  If you find any difference in their behavior or character, you have to rectify that. Throwing things out, always being with mother or father, moving back all these are ok till a certain age. But when your children are still like this though their age is 4 or 5 then those childhood characters and behavior leads to shyness. So you need to confirm this and try to look for your children to be active.

Reasons:

Don’t ever show your frustration on children by comparing them with other children, by saying why you will be always with me, why can’t you be like that girl in the next house. It is not at all good and correct. Because you may be one of the reason for your child to be like that. The Over shyness and not mingled with people are the characteristics which sometimes comes through genes also. When all the family members are not mingling with each other and due to family disputes some people separate children so this also show the difference in children behavior. When you are not mingled with the people around you, this shows the impact on your children also.

Things to do:

When you want to bring change in your children to mingle with others then first you need to start mingling with the people around you. Try to create an atmosphere that all the children of your family play with each other. React towards the achievements and failures of your children in schools. If they get one mark more than the other then prize them. From childhood itself take them for every occasion which you have to visit. Don’t keep children with you on the occasion. Give them some freedom to mingle with others and make new friends. Beside studies, it is good to teach them singing, dancing, karate like other activities.  

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