Teenage – the reckless period of one’s life; the age between 13 and 19; the time when every kid steps to fly in a wonderland or dreamland; a time when all dreams appear real; the time of infatuation and attraction of opposite sex. So, more chances are there to make friendship with opposite sex and misinterpreting it as love incase both likes each other. It is just a phase of time, nothing else. So through this article let me try to make you differentiate friendship from love.

Love at teens is just like a lust that works spontaneously and chemistry between the two disappears even more quickly than it occurred. Very often such attractions are misinterpreted as love and kids may lose their concentration in studies. It’s nothing short than a frailty and if given a little time or short interval, it can be easily understood also.

So, my advice is – if you feel that your friendship has entered a new phase that you interpret as love, give a little time. If it is real, it stays with you for long. Otherwise it will fade along with the course of time. Perhaps you may find someone better than the first person. Even you will think that what I thought is not real, it was just a trick or magic played by mind. Now the magic is gone! But one thing to note – Never pressurize your mind too much and give it too many thoughts to get rid of that relation. Instead, let it leave and allow ‘time’ to take correct decision. No doubt, it will be the best decision. If you try to control something extra, of course it will break. Similarly, if you apply too much pressure to end that relation, it may grow stronger too. Better decision will be to allow your mind concentrate in some other thoughts or hobbies and even better concentration to studies can make that task easy for you.

Many people often give advice that, “Think about future. Think about your parents.”  But I will never advise kids so. Such duties appear huge burdens to small kids and it’s not easy for them to carry all. They are not mature too. Instead give less thoughts and tensions to mind and leave everything to time. “Let time decide” – It’s my solution!      

Article Posted By : Sandhya Rani  On April 16, 2013lView All Articles

Hoping my advice will help a lot of teens in love confusion

Article Source :

http://www.veethi.com/articles/is-it-friendship-or-love-my-advice-for-teens-article-2000.htm

Keywords :
teenage love , love at teens , how to get rid of love , infatuation , attraction of opposite sex